tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7801531430325788593.post4247125740442367350..comments2023-10-30T05:13:10.006-05:00Comments on A Queen and her Knight: Expectations Are EVERYTHING!Angeliquehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06079421215693265281noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7801531430325788593.post-73305215403130330572012-06-15T08:18:14.599-05:002012-06-15T08:18:14.599-05:00And, I agree with you, SH. I don't accept &quo...And, I agree with you, SH. I don't accept "I didn't have time" as an excuse. If anything, it upsets me when he says it because with everything I do each day I MAKE the time for things that are important to him and the kids. I expect him to do the same. <br /><br />I also know my Knight. Time management is NOT is strong point. Not getting things done is one of the things we argued about before. Since I know he needs help managing his time I have taken on the responsibility to teach him. But, in order to teach him time management I have to be consistent in my expectations and demands. I'm just as much to blame as he is... maybe more, because he is looking to me for guidance.Angeliquehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06079421215693265281noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7801531430325788593.post-17924265426091220152012-06-15T08:13:29.039-05:002012-06-15T08:13:29.039-05:00I'm not so worried about being politically cor...I'm not so worried about being politically correct. And, I'm sure there probably are some good points to physical punishment, but I'm just not all that into it. I don't like causing anybody pain.. not even when that pain is really pleasure. <br /><br />That's not to say I haven't been tempted once or twice, but he really has to piss me off to get to that point. And physical punishment is never a good idea when you're *that* mad.Angeliquehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06079421215693265281noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7801531430325788593.post-49812616567626776652012-06-15T08:05:41.788-05:002012-06-15T08:05:41.788-05:00Interesting ideas. I have a list of punishments st...Interesting ideas. I have a list of punishments stored away in a bag in our room. When we started this I wrote out 10 punishments and 10 rewards, and had my Knight do the same. I put them in two different bags to be pulled randomly as needed. I haven't used them much.Maybe I should.Angeliquehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06079421215693265281noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7801531430325788593.post-42115947068496611512012-06-12T05:40:14.243-05:002012-06-12T05:40:14.243-05:00Misstress Angelique,
The “I don’t have time” resp...Misstress Angelique,<br /><br />The “I don’t have time” response is not acceptable, in my view. As an intelligent adult, one should be able to apply time management skills to complete priority obligation by making adjustments. In a person who lacks time management skills, they should first work on developing those.<br /><br />For instance, my wife requires me to complete my weekly chores before bed on Friday. I cook and clean all the family meals, do all the domestic chores including laundry and ironing, and also work a full 40+ work week outside of the house. I find waking up early, getting breakfast ready, getting dressed and then doing a chore per day before going to work gets my list done. In the evening when I come home from work I fit in other items if needed after I tend to my evening chores.<br /><br />For some men, living a 24/7 service submissive lifestyle is not for them. I personally believe the role will become increasingly common and suggest prolonged enforced chastity as a counter to male bravado getting in the way of fulfilling the obligations of the role. It is an amazingly effective and conveniently available tool to help facilitate. Reguardless, “Not having time” just doesn’t make sense. If a domme tells a submissive to do something, they should do it. If the domme says do these chores, the submissive should figure out how they are going to do it in service to their domme. The domme should not need chaperone. <br /><br />-SHWalter H. Schulze IIIhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00137440229102629342noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7801531430325788593.post-46598271802270574982012-06-12T00:37:03.530-05:002012-06-12T00:37:03.530-05:00Go on flog him hard.
The problem with writing line...Go on flog him hard.<br />The problem with writing lines or standing in the corner is that it wasts time. He is saying that he cant do things because of lack of time so time wasting punishments do not help.<br /><br />Can't speak for him, but for me I can interpret physical punishment in several ways. A medium painful whipping delivered in love is titillating and communicates love. A really hard whipping that is a real challenge to endure communicates love and disapointment. ie it communicates love because she has made the effort and it communicates disapointment both because it hurts but also because I know that I have disapointed.<br /><br />Yes I know that physical punishment is not politically correct these days but I believe that there are good points to it.<br /><br />Just my 2 cents worth.submanhubhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04979339663861061771noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7801531430325788593.post-51524201305501690142012-06-12T00:29:50.686-05:002012-06-12T00:29:50.686-05:00Mistress
I would think, that your knight says that...Mistress<br />I would think, that your knight says that he whants to be in this lifestyle, but as you say, he will also try to catch that evening on the couch with you. (don't blame him) LOL<br />If you don't like punishments, possibly "writing lines" might be appropriate or taking his TV privileges totally away for a week or so while he writes those lines or whatever "mindless" chore that you come up with.<br /><br />I had a mistress who would have me take something out to the garage, and when I got back, would very sternly tell me to go back and get it....sometimes over and over. Really mindless, huh? But she got a kick out of it and also, I would do it naked. (you have kids..sorry) She was a computer long distance mistress, so she could be doing anything while I was doing this "chore"jellybeanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01058762820079699862noreply@blogger.com