tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7801531430325788593.post4419533091858700021..comments2023-10-30T05:13:10.006-05:00Comments on A Queen and her Knight: A Rant.Angeliquehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06079421215693265281noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7801531430325788593.post-65314791484624463792012-05-25T09:26:50.808-05:002012-05-25T09:26:50.808-05:00What I believe is that most men lack an internal s...What I believe is that most men lack an internal sense of discipline. They know what is right and wrong, but will often do the wrong thing because it is easier, or they simply become confused. It is really up to you to establish firm, clear rules that your man can understand. When dealing with a husband it is best never to take any thing for granted. Even though we have been together for many years, I still have John recite the basic rules of the hosue every so often.<br />I question if you husband really honestly understands you are the boss in the house, and his persoanl mistress. Love, KathyKathyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07388565466269673134noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7801531430325788593.post-39419611808008241622012-05-24T23:51:24.660-05:002012-05-24T23:51:24.660-05:00I think that you shouldn't over react to his m...I think that you shouldn't over react to his mistake and shortcoming here in a way that you lose all trust in him, but use this as a chance to help him learn that these types of behaviors will not be tolerated. He needs to be punished for this in a way that really makes him think. One good way is to have him write sentences. Have him write a sentence (long one) that reflects his knowledge that his behavior was bad and what he is going to do to fix that going forward and then have him write it enough times, in an uncomfortable position, until his hand is cramped and those words really sink in. I had to do this with my whore once and after he wrote them all I had him kneel before me and then read me each sentence verbally too and then at the end of that repeat it once to me from memory. <br /><br />I find that pain isn't always the best punishment, sometimes something like this goes a lot further with really making someone think.<br /><br />Hope you two work this out.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7801531430325788593.post-58728573100108424962012-05-24T16:25:26.395-05:002012-05-24T16:25:26.395-05:00I think you need to allow for human weakness. Yes...I think you need to allow for human weakness. Yes, it is upsetting, and yes, he should be punished -- judging from the degree it hurt you, severely. However, an FLR does not, in itself, cure bad habits, and you have made it clear that he has them. <br /><br />So this event becomes a chance to bring the misbehavior within the context of the FLR, and, as the prior poster said, mold him. <br /><br />I wish you well.Cuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09998618832399237301noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7801531430325788593.post-16964680932541868472012-05-23T20:11:13.892-05:002012-05-23T20:11:13.892-05:00Angelique, once and only once I betrayed Katie'...Angelique, once and only once I betrayed Katie's trust. I was beaten for it. I will never forget having to kneel before her and then be beaten. The thougt that a grown woman, the woman I said I loved, would hit me with all her might out of anger because of what I did will forever stick in my mind. I mention it because I learned my lesson. I learned that we were not equals. I learned that I was not to go behind her back. I learned so many things. <br /><br />I don't know if that is where you are but as an educator you know that there are 'teachable moments' when one must sieze the moment to get the point, concept, lesson or whatever it is you are trying your 'student' to learn. You're husband exhibits that you don't particularly like. You need to find a way to brea those habits not to make him less of a man and husband but rather to make him into a better husband, father, lover, and sub. The leadership a Domme provides is not always easy. I wish you well as you decide how to correct his mistakes and mold him into the man you want him to become.I'm-Hershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04303339046471886645noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7801531430325788593.post-38084070245145508902012-05-23T19:19:27.790-05:002012-05-23T19:19:27.790-05:00Mistress Angelique,
The freedom to verbalize ange...Mistress Angelique,<br /><br />The freedom to verbalize anger is one of the privileges of your station. A submissive is generally not permitted this same privilege. Further, it is permitted to express your anger in any way you find you would think most helpful, to you and/or him. It is a big step to get to this place and be able to be overt with your anger. It is a place of confidence in his role as your submissive, since he should rightly cower when you are angry (emotionally, not physically).<br /><br />I do wish you the best.<br /><br />Take care.<br /><br />-SHWalter H. Schulze IIIhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00137440229102629342noreply@blogger.com