We're still here. My knight and I have been incredibly busy lately. The unpacking is done, but there are carpets to pull out, and hard wood floors to put in. Grown daughter #2 was with us for about a month, which put a hold on the open FLR activities. Grown daughter #2 doesn't get it, and is very judgemental toward me when I give my knight lists and make requests of him. She's all of 18, just moved out on her own, and lives in the idealistic world of the young where "equal" means splitting everything 50/50 all the time, and everybody being treated "the same." It's not worth the fight, so, I tend to tone it down when she's around. She'll learn on her own.
Grown daughter #1 came home for a week visit, then she went back to where she lives and back to her job.
Since grown daughter #2 left for college, I've been thinking about the fun knight and I can have when all the kids are grown. Our youngest is only 8, so we have some time, but it will be fun when I can insist he not wear clothes in the house, and when I can take him out to our rather thick woods so we can take nude photos of each other. My knight has a bit of an exhibitionist streak in him, and I think it would be fun to take him deep into our woods for a bit of cock play in front of our camera. He wouldn't get to come, though.
He and I have not been talking about the FLR aspect of things at all lately. At one point he told me he wasn't sure he wanted the FLR dynamic, so I backed off. We started arguing again because he was scatterbrained, and unreliable again. I didn't comment on it our arguing, or the cause of it, I simply started sending him daily lists, and letting him know that I was not longer "asking" him to do things, I simply expected them to be done. Even when we're not actively doing the FLR thing, I still control his orgasms, he rarely comes without my express permission any more. That held true even after he told me he wasn't sure he still wanted the FLR dynamic. Whether it's habit, or something else, I don't know, but I LIKE being in full control of his orgasms. I approached the subject of locking him before the move, but he didn't answer me, and we got busy and preoccupied with moving across country.