Wednesday, November 16, 2011

Maintaining Control

It's easy to maintain the new control dynamic when there is little going on at home. It's a lot harder when we're busy.  I need to do a better job of remember I'm the one in control when my knight is off from work.

His days off started off great. We continued our teasing game and were both having fun with it. Right up until the point things got hectic. Sure, I was still in control.. but I got caught up with my own work, kids, household stuff etc and forgot to have fun with it. By midnight last night, I was feeling a little bit neglected. And it was my own fault -- I gave my knight clear directions on what I needed him to do around the house and with the kids while he was off work, but I neglected to give him instructions as to what *I* wanted. In my head I had planned lots of massages and playtime for me. But I was miserably bad at telling him that.

This is going to take some practice.

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