I finally got an answer to my question. Just a few minutes before 10 am.. (he made the deadline.... can I get a round of applause for him!!!) so.. the question was.. "
"What would make the FLR dynamic more fun or more fulfilling?"
After four paragraphs of basically talking to himself and working things out in his head.. my knight's answer boiled down to --- Be more comfortable in my role, be more spontaneous and don't censor myself so much.
LOL.. so.. the exact issues that I struggle with are what he's like to see more of. He's following my lead..... and knowing that helps me a lot.
I'm getting ready for a fireworks party, so I'll have to post more about this later this week.