Wednesday, July 3, 2013

He Is Trying...

I finally got an answer to my question. Just a few minutes before 10 am.. (he made the deadline.... can I get a round of applause for him!!!)  so.. the question was.. "

"What would make the FLR dynamic more fun or more fulfilling?"

After four paragraphs of basically talking to himself and working things out in his head.. my knight's answer boiled down to  --- Be more comfortable in my role, be more spontaneous and don't censor myself so much.

LOL.. so.. the exact issues that I struggle with are what he's like to see more of. He's following my lead..... and knowing that helps me a lot.

I'm getting ready for  a fireworks party, so I'll have to post more about this later this week.

5 comments:

  1. Glad you finally got an answer. Now, I hope "his" question is; What can "I" do to help you feel more comfortable in your role, help you be more spontaneous and move our FLR forward? Then you can put in black and white what's important to you. Can you tell I have not been a big fan of his past behavior? Hope you both have a great 4th of July.

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  2. Ferns who blogs at Domme Chronicles just wrote an entry that seems very relevant to your husband and your situation.

    http://www.domme-chronicles.com/2013/07/supporting-your-dominants-dominance.html?utm_source=feedburner&utm_medium=feed&utm_campaign=Feed%3A+DommeChronicles+%28Domme+Chronicles%29

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  3. Sorry for that messy link. Here is a better one

    http://www.domme-chronicles.com/2013/07/supporting-your-dominants-dominance.html

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    1. What a great blog. Thanks for the link!

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