Earlier today Wishful 4 left this lovely message for my knight in the comments of another post:
"Knight, there are literally hundreds, maybe thousands, of us submissive guys out here striving to cultivate a FLR with our spouse. A few spouse's embrace it, some mildly participate out of love, and a large portion outright reject it. Yet we continue to try. Many submissive men out there would cut off their right arm to have a spouse such as yours, yet you seem to be just screwing it up and blowing off an absolutely wonderful opportunity to have what many will only dream of. You need to shed your fears and come clean to your wife about what it is you really want and need in your life, no matter what you fear she may think of you. She is stronger than you think. Open up your mind and heart to her. I fear there is a limit to her patience and understanding and you may be approaching that limit soon. You have been given a gift. Don't blow it!!
Here is my knight's response
"...that's just it, babe...where am I not telling you "what I really want and need in my life"...??