The last few days have been smooth and conflict free. Ever since I brought up the topic of punishments and chastity devices, he's been on his best behavior. He's completed his list each day, and has remembered to bring it to me before we go to bed. He's been looking for ways to help out, has been more attentive and open with me, and has stopped complaining. And... he's been rewarded greatly. The stress is gone, which makes me a lot more interested in sex. Since Friday he's gotten teased and played with at least twice each day. Each tease session has included me allowing him to bring me to orgasm at least twice. Last night I teased and used him for my personal pleasure for about 2 hours. When I was finished, he curled up in my arms and peacefully drifted off to sleep. I checked my calendar. Knight's last orgasm was December 30. He's doing a good job of not letting himself get too close to orgasm, and not complaining about being denied. Actually, he seems to be enjoying it again.
It's been a good couple of days.
We haven't finished our punishment and chastity discussions yet. There always seems to be a kid around, but the door has been opened. This coming Friday or Sunday (maybe both) my 18 year old will stay home to keep an eye on the younger kids so my knight and I can go out alone together for a while. On Friday we'll go out to dinner to my favorite restaurant. What happens after dinner will depend on the weather. But, during that time I will bring up the punishment and chastity again... if we don't make the time before then. I want to hear my knights opinions on both. I don't know that his punishment ideas will be of any real use -- the last time I asked him for suggestion his punishment list was very similar to his rewards list, but we'll see what he comes up with . I do want to know how he feels about chastity, though. We've never discussed it, and I'm curious. If he isn't fond of the idea, it'll make a great punishment tool. If he loves the idea then I need to do some thinking about it. My favorite thing about our current chastity rules is that he follows them because I expect it. If we introduce a device, then he has not choice but to comply... it takes away the aspect of self control because I demand it. But.. we'll see what he has to say.