Thursday, March 12, 2015

New Routines, New Expectations

I've learned (again, sometimes I 'm hard headed) that I need to make a solid effort to keep flr in the forefront of everything we do. My knight needs to feel my dominance over him in a way that helps him know he's loved. To that end, I've decided that the first 5 minutes after he comes home from work, should be dedicated to re-establishing a connection between us.

The plan is for us to go into our bedroom as soon as he gets home from work. I'll have him do something that enforces the dynamic, and at the same time, reinforces my love and acceptance of him. For example, I might have him kneel at me feet and tell me what he missed about me during the day. Or, what he loves about the dynamic. Maybe I'll wear a skirt, and have him kneel under the skirt and use his tongue on me for five minutes. What ever I come up with that day. I'm going to make a list of things that seem to work, so that I don't always have to think about it.

Yesterday was the first day of this new routine, but I wasn't going to be home when he got home. The youngest and I had church choir practice, and knight and I passed each other on the highway. 

On choir days, I leave knight a note in the kitchen to remind him of what needs done while I'm gone - which kid needs to do what, and which kids have screen time, and who does not. Yesterday's note was a little different. I put numbered the tasks in the order I wanted them done. Number one read - "There is a note for you on your pillow. Have J dish up dinner. Go into our bedroom read the note and do what it says."

The note on his pillow read:
"1. Go get my camera. It's on the island. Come back to the bedroom. 2. Strip completely. 3. Get on your knees and set up the camera so you can take video. 4. Masturbate for me for 1 minute. Pretend I'm sitting here watching you, and put on a show for me. You are not allowed to come. 5. At the end of the minute, get dressed and then turn off the camera. 6 Leave the camera where it is, and go eat dinner. "

I didn't get any texts from my knight while I was away, so I had no idea what he thought of the note. He likes to be watched, so I knew he'd get a kick out of making a short video for me, but I wasn't sure how he'd react/ feel afterward. I shouldn't have worried about it. He obviously enjoyed the experience.


  1. Wonderful idea. Love it!
    I've already been planning that when David and I move in together since I'll be working with him that we'll need a end of work day ritual to help us both get back to our regular frame of mind for our free time.

  2. OMG Angelique, that is freaking awesome! Good for you! I love this idea so much that I am going to suggest to Mistress K. that we do something that amount to a daily affirmation as well.


  3. Ms Angelique, That is a great idea. I bet it will help get him in the right mindset and forget about the problems of the day. My only suggestion would be to add a lot of verbal teasing and interaction to that. Tell him how his job is to obey you and how pleased you are at what he is doing. I hope you'll post on the results after this ritual has been in place for a couple of weeks.

  4. Mistress Angelique, Love your work, I'm sure Knight felt special.

    Also a reminder to check your eamil.



Knight has a thing for body piercings. I have a couple piercings that he gets to play with and take photos of when he's been really good...