I ordered knight's chastity device yesterday. I went with the Jailhouse for a couple of reasons. First, I absolutely hate the look of plastic types, like the CB 6000. It may be more comfortable and easier to wear for a first device, but I just don't like it. I want to get him a Jailbird, but I have no intention of spending over $300 on a device to experiment and play with. I still don't like the idea of putting him in a chastity device. He has followed my rule about no masturbating faithfully for 10 years. He would no more masturbate without permission than he would cheat on me. Neither are even within the realm of possibility.
So, why am I locking him up then? Entirely for the effect it will have on his mind. It's a constant reminder that I am in charge, that I control his orgasms and that I control him. I will admit that I am kind of hoping I see no change in his behavior after using the chastity device for 3 months because I'm just not thrilled about this. I feel like making him wear a chastity device takes away the trust aspect. To me, it's a very special thing knowing that he doesn't masturbate simply and only because I say so. I'm not forcing it on him, he chooses to comply out of respect for me. Once I put the device on him, I'm forcing him to comply. It is very much not the same.
But, it's obvious that my knight needs to feel my control more deeply. He wants more strict flr from me, and things are not going work the way I want them to until I make him feel that increased control. So, I'm going to give this a try and see what happens.
On a side note, my knight offered to stay home and clean the kitchen today while I take the kids to our usual Sunday afternoon family activity. I'm not sure what prompted that.. but I'll take it.