Sunday, December 2, 2012

"I Like It Too Much"

I've been wanting to write this post for a few weeks now, but just have not had the time to sit down and  do it.

Six weeks or so ago, I was talking to my Knight about restarting the orgasm control. When we took our flr break tease and denial stopped. After his comment about his ex, I wanted to make sure my Knight understood the reasons why I am insisting on total control over his orgasms.  Toward the end of the conversation, I make the off-hand comment, "oh, come on.. you don't really hate it that much, do you?"

My Knight answered with, "No, that's the problem.. I like it too much." and he slipped out the door real quick before I could comment.

I let him get away with slipping out like that because it was the first time he's really admitted that he enjoys orgasm control.


  1. Mistress Angelique,

    It is a wonderful feeling to have this be the decision of the woman. Also, there is the benefit of it facilitating the power dynamic in ways only it can do.

    The fact that men are hesitant to agree is the fear of being w/o too long. This takes time to have the man change his mind on and the authority of a woman is just the right thing to help him get over this fear and teach him to learn to enjoy being kept chaste for her instead.




    1. I guess I just don't understand what there is to fear. He agreed to it before we started it, so why play it off as something he does just because. Knowing he's enjoying it too is a big turn on for me.

      I guess, there's no way I can understand it if he isn't sure himself.

  2. I love orgasm control too. In fact when jay and I are apart he is never allowed to cum. Only edging and ruinded ones. The only time he can cum is when we are together and he is inside me. I love it that way. I get him totally desperate each day. I love knowing his horny and lusting over me 24/7..

    1. I'm a little more strict that than you are. My Knight isn't allowed to ever come without my permission, and he's never allowed to masturbate unless I ask him to. If he's allowed to edge, it's at my hand, and I don't do ruined orgasms. He's either permitted to come, or he's not.

      One of my favorite rewards to give him is to edge him five or six times over the space of an hour or two. He doesn't get to come during these times.

  3. The term commonly applied to the situation men encounter with respect to this is they are ‘indecisive’. It is because they are ‘indecisive’ concerning this which is specifically why it is best left for the women to decide. A woman’s decision will end up being more objective.

    1. That makes sense, I suppose. I'm just happy he finally admitted that he actually enjoying it as opposed to just "putting up with it."



Knight has a thing for body piercings. I have a couple piercings that he gets to play with and take photos of when he's been really good...