Friday, January 24, 2014

Knight's Response

Earlier today Wishful 4 left this lovely message for my knight in the comments of another post:

"Knight, there are literally hundreds, maybe thousands, of us submissive guys out here striving to cultivate a FLR with our spouse. A few spouse's embrace it, some mildly participate out of love, and a large portion outright reject it. Yet we continue to try. Many submissive men out there would cut off their right arm to have a spouse such as yours, yet you seem to be just screwing it up and blowing off an absolutely wonderful opportunity to have what many will only dream of. You need to shed your fears and come clean to your wife about what it is you really want and need in your life, no matter what you fear she may think of you. She is stronger than you think. Open up your mind and heart to her. I fear there is a limit to her patience and understanding and you may be approaching that limit soon. You have been given a gift. Don't blow it!! 

Here is my knight's response
"...that's just it, babe...where am I not telling you "what I really want and need in my life"...??


  1. I would take that to mean "I want to please you, that's all I want to do" and with that permission the door for you is opened wide to do as you wish. It's open to discipline him, it's open to put him in chastity. It's open for you to take all of his financial freedom away, it's open for you to put him in panties, to give him corner time, to do whatever you wish.

    But the reality of your life is that is not what he wants. He bucks and fights you tooth and nail all the way. As so many have suggested - he needs to be remolded - broken and then reformed to your liking. And if that is not happening - which it isn't, maybe the ownership for that failure is you. Maybe it's you that can't bring yourself to making your relationship happen. What I mean by that is that it is so easy to fall into the trap of putting out the brushfires, to scolding him when he disappoints and giving him hugs when he obeys. However for those of us that are not emotionally involved in your relationship with your KNight, it's pretty easy to see that you are spinning your wheels. You have so many ups and downs - make a little headway, then fall back to square 1.

    It's up to you to make progress happen and to make sure that he doesn't ever want to 'go there' and disappoint you because of the consequences of that. For example, what if you locked him and then said, I'll let you out in 60 days IF....... and if he doesn't, then you don't. I've gone way beyond that. It's not the end of the world but it sure does get a mans intention. I really do hope you can figure this out and enjoy at some point his loving service without all the crap you've been having to put up with. Have a great weekend.

  2. Angelique, how frustrated you must be, just reading your blog makes me frustrated so I can't imagine how you must feel. Wishful 4 is right, there are so many men out there who would kill for an opportunity like this...
    I think it's a good idea to try a different approach and to tease him with what he wants, hope things work out for you.



Knight has a thing for body piercings. I have a couple piercings that he gets to play with and take photos of when he's been really good...